Sometimes I'm the boss, sometimes I like to be bossed around. That's layman's terms for my vanilla friends. Over 25 years in the BDSM life. As a dominant, my fetishes are verbal, rough(mild not sadistic), roping, breath play, caning, of course spanking 😜, DDLG, role-play,(some mild, some darker). As a submissive I am open to my partners desires. I do like pegging, and toys in my submissive state. Scat, blood, leaving marks, severe pain, ball torture, or not obeying boundaries and safe words are all hard passes and definitely not my thing.

My Ideal Person Sorry to sound mean, but if you can't read messages, that's a you problem, not a me problem. The best things in life aren't free. You have to put in the work for the rewards. I like all women and all sizes until you get to the Fupa size. That's gross to me and unhealthy for you. If you have bad genes or a thyroid problem, there are men in the Walmart parking lot or city mission that will love you. I get along well with sapiosexuals, and all other intelligent people as long as they aren't conceited. I know I'm not the most handsome man in the world, but im good in bed, and I'm not expecting a 10 to message me. I'm a 5 or a 6, but after I make you soak the bed, I'll be a 10 for the next couple hours and I'm good with that. Thank you for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon.